tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7519579675366652813.post4037561665753006476..comments2023-09-11T23:55:19.244+09:30Comments on My house smells like vanilla: Famous last wordsSaskia Brownhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07075742280106743610noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7519579675366652813.post-46619359398450507362011-01-03T09:35:34.971+10:302011-01-03T09:35:34.971+10:30Is this at the awesome centre? 2 days of awesome i...Is this at the awesome centre? 2 days of awesome is definitely better than none, and you can always put her in at the other one the other 3 days if you need to while you're on the waitlist for more days. <br />I went through exactly the same freakout as you - will she get enough milk, will she sleep, OMG we are supposed to have a routine?! (When I said we didn't have a routine, one of the carers said 'oh, she has one, you just might not know what it is yet. Write down what she does over a few days, it doesn't have to be the same to the nearest minute to be a routine.') And the comparisons, of course, leading to the feelings of being judged. <br />Carers that listen are excellent. Carers that are open to cloth are also a v good sign. <br />On the breastfeeding - I take it pumping and bottle-feeding EBM is not an option? You could try sending some EBM to give in a cup, if you are ok with it probably being spilt! Coming over in your lunch break for a feed is worth doing if possible. But if you can't, feed when you drop her off and pick her up, and you'll both adjust (she might feed more at night though).<br />On sleep - do you guys have a stroller? B would not sleep in a cot either, but she would sleep in a stroller, so at daycare they just used that until she was old enough to go on a mattress on the floor. At home I still have to feed her to sleep, but when I'm not there she goes to sleep by herself when she's tired.<br />I'm sure it will be ok. B loooves her daycare, and her carers. I like that she gets a nice balance of stimulation and learning experiences there, and quiet days with me. And I appreciate being able to maintain my career and calling, and we're all happier.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7519579675366652813.post-80047530322969407252010-12-14T21:18:03.938+10:302010-12-14T21:18:03.938+10:30*hugs* Choosing and then starting childcare is so ...*hugs* Choosing and then starting childcare is so bloody hard, you feel damned no matter what you do. Sally will be fine, she sounds like such a cruisey bubba that she'll just fit in with whatever happens and go with the flow :-) A would only go to sleep on the boob for me, wouldn't sleep for K AT ALL, but went to sleep happily at daycare being rocked in a pram... Breastfeeding wasn't affected, he's still feeding now nearly three years after he started daycare :)<br /><br />Much love to you, I'm happy to listen at any time if you need to talk out the feelings surrounding daycare with someone who has been there *hugs*Nessnoreply@blogger.com