Benefits:
- I'm 29 and ManFriend is nearly 30 so now's a good time, and a better time than the future physically and oocyte'ly.
- We are about as Grown Up as we're going to get
- We are smart and see that replacing ourselves with a person or two who is also smart and resourceful is a Good Idea.
- Babies are cute and gorgeous and a source of love and fun. Toddlers are cute and squishable and fun. Kids are fabulous and individual. Teenagers are too.
- We want kid(s) and it's something we want to do to complete our lives. We have talked about this.
- My physical fitness
- Money
- Conflicts between parenting and working/studying
- Needing to move house to set up for a family
- Waiting (not really an alternative as age will start to play a part in the risk profile of it, and we don't want to be too old to be having fun with kids!)
- Adopting ($$$$$ and hard in Australia)
- Fostering (hard and $$)
- Not (not an option for us to consider - we both want to, a lot)
- Awwwwwwwwwww but we want to ;)
- There are 7 years left before I hit what I think of as my deadline (35) so it's not that bad to do nothing
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